Well I was told today by a 24-year-old that I certainly am a "cougar."
I hate that term of course - it means a woman in her 30s-40s who likes 20-something guys. I hate it because a 30-40-something guy who is into 20-something women is called... "a guy."
But more, I hate the fact that I am so hung up on love & affection. It's so much easier if you are just about the physical.
It's a curse.